I Blocked My Ex After Cheating On Me

Chronicles of Love, cheating and depression.

I was dating a guy who was just two years older than i am, he had a cool personality and seems all righteous.

We had no official jobs then, as i was in my finals in school, while he waited for NYSC mobilization. The relationship was well and upright as the distance between our location was just an hour drive. It was all fine till he went to camp, I mean NYSC camp, we communicated so well and we clearly understood when to talk and when not to talk due to the rules and regulations dictated to them in camp.

Fast forward to when he came out of camp, to when he came back to visit me in school, oh well, that was the last time i ever set my eyes on him.

We had clear conversations about trending stories of how lovers go astray while serving their father land, of which they seize the opportunity to cheat and whatsoever. The conversation was clear enough as he promised never to fail or go astray.

We had things we did together regardless of the new eight hours distance. He was God fearing and cared about anything that involves the God, with this we always had a fasting and praying day every week, celebrated monthly anniversaries, we advice each other and in summary, we worked towards having a great communication system.

A month after he started serving, he stopped calling with complains of being busy, new responsibilities at the fellowship and all. He wasn't on social media during the first four months of our relationship as he had issues with his phone, and lived along because i strongly understood his background and how he has always been, and with that, i wasn't flaunted by my boyfriend.

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Oh well, let me chip this in, before we decided to have a romantic relationship, we were so close, i mean he was more or less like a best friend. He was someone that always corrected my mistakes, we shared a lot of things, apart from body looks and all. He was smart to me and very logical.

There's this fact, I've got to understand, you will never know the true behavior of people if you don't move closer to them. I felt he was smart, but i later got to know that he wasn't all smart.

My story is a bit lengthy, but you have to permit me as i have a lot to type here.

Back to a month after he started serving, he stopped calling and had excuses to cover up, things about me never mattered to him unlike before that i fell so ill and he couldn't even man up, or pretend or just check on me after telling him how sick i was.

I had my final year project all sorted out without his knowledge, despite the issues i had with my supervisor, the lengthy pages and the defense, my so-called guy had no clue of how i scaled through everything. He stopped calling for months and i took up the responsibility of always calling to check on me.

Love they say is blind, and never advice a lover who is blinded with love, because he or she will never listen to you...

Check for episodes of chronicles of love, cheating and depression in subsequent published articles.....(To be continued...)