Eroticism and Intimacy: 6 Tips To Increase Desire In Your Relationship.

Having you been faking it, or you are just into it due to pressure?
Or maybe you never enjoy moments with your partner?

Oh well, eroticism and intimacy helps to spice up your love life, while it grows and turns out to be great, it gives birth to Desires.

Desires in relationships are meant to be satisfied with the consent of both parties involved. You are not dating yourself and it is expected to yearn and thirst for more of your partner's attention, get more intimate and stay happy.

If you have never been in the mood, or maybe you have been faking it, Here are some tips to help get back the VIBES you need.

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The utmost reason why you lost the vibes is due to the set-in of LOW DESIRE. It is normal for low /no desires to set into your relationship, especially when your relationship is a LONG-TERM course.

 Just like every other enjoyable thing in life, sex takes time and effort, but the great news is that with some practice, you can absolutely get the vibes back.

Here are six tips to acquire eroticism and increase desire in your sex life.

KP NO 1. Get your mind and body aligned

Having sexual thoughts is important and it helps in rekindling the vibe. Do not think it's not important to think about it, however, attach much importance and value to thoughts of sex. If you think about how much you do not want to engage in a sexual encounter it will lessen your chances for increasing your desire and enhancing your relationship with your sexual self.

KP NO 2.  Stay healthy

Stay healthy, take care of yourself always. Eat well. have a bath, get to the gym, and engage yourself in activities that will give you more energy. Moreover, love and work on your body. This will build up confidence and feeling attractive all play into one's sexual and sensual self. Cultivate a good and healthy relationship with your body in order for all other relationships to function at an optimum.
  

KP NO 3. Enhance the emotional intimacy

This can be done only by working on your relationship. If things are not going smooth outside of the bedroom, it will absolutely impact the health of your sex life. Try out new things together to enhance the spark you need. Learn how to be responsible for validating your own feelings.

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When you are on the same page with one another, outside of the bedroom, communicate about what you want inside the bedroom. Also, dedicate time and locate a quiet location, where you can cozy up and share your ideas, desires and something new you would like to experience.

KP NO 4. Focus on pleasure sharing

Yeah, i mean pleasure sharing. Focus on the big O - ORGASM. Don't be ashamed or stressed about orgasm, doing this is conditioning to have a negative response to sex.
Make eye contact while being intimate, as this can enhance your emotional connection. Completely letting go and allowing yourself to lose yourself in the presence of another is a feeling like no other, let go and lose yourself in the moment, in the experience.Enjoy it.

Also, i would advice you to try giving each other an erotic massage, without touching one anothers' genitals. Focus on being sensual and intimate, not sexual. 

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KP NO 5. Be open and be playful.

When it all seem like your desires are not being satisfied, it's advisable to open up and be willing willing to receive and share pleasure. Desire is not always necessary to start or engage in a sexual encounter; being open and positive to having an experience can create desire and arousal.

 Knowing you can stop at any time can help with being more open more often. Again, taking the focus off the end result and putting your mind on being close, intimate, playful and open to the idea of being sexual helps in getting the vibes in.

KP NO 6. Set the scene and Be creative about it

 Be aware of the events and activities that triggers your sexual encounters. Pay attention to your mood, your fantasies, and your erogenous zones; this can help you to recondition your sexual response.
Be creative in setting the scene. Create an environment that helps you to relax and feel sexy. You could read about it, i mean read a new erotic or educational book together or make research.
Also, Go on vacation to get away from stress. Have some fun by creating a fantasy list to explore your sexual wants, likes and dislikes. Set boundaries within your partnership. If you would be uncomfortable hearing certain things, make sure your partner knows that ahead of time.


In summary, Eroticism and intimacy contributes to the healthy state of your sex life, yeah..you can't just jump into bed and do it, nah. Understand what works for you too, work on your body, communicate with your partner and always be creative about it. I believe this tips will work for you. Get the vibes back...Enjoy.