I Blocked My Ex After Cheating On Me (episode 3)

After his birthday, i decided never to call or even know anything about him, i decided to give him more space, allow him to breathe well and enjoy....so i stopped talking about him and concentrated squarely on my business.

Oh well, he had nothing to contribute to the business as it wasn't his line of study or what he had passion for. we were just two different entities.

While he continued flaunting our dazzling friend all around, i kept mute and played along, and guess what happened after months of playing along......

After few months of playing along, i decided to break the ties and let him be free.. Of course, i did break the ties with mixed feelings. I wasn't sure if what i was doing was wrong or right. I had no one to talk to, not even his close friends, not even the people i stayed with.

Yes, i broke the ties with a text message which prompted him to send a message on whatsapp, shockingly, he agreed to the idea of breaking up. Oh well, what am i supposed to do, his words didn't express feelings of being remorseful. So i had to let go without having a proper understanding of what really transpired between us.

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I cared not to ask him further...No doubts i formed being strong but deep down i was hurt, the year lapsed and good news the new year sets in....with the mindset of "You no longer have a lover"

It was so hard to hold on, it was so hard to let people in, I remember i made couple of new friends of which i ended up breaking into a run after which some made their intentions known...Intentions of making me the object of affection.

No, it wasn't what i needed, only if they could understand that behind the smiling face is a wounded heart.. I couldn't explain to them, as they were not in the position to understand what i was going through.

After two months of breaking the ties with my Ex, he tried coming back with no genuine reason, and as days passes by, he apparently became a thorn in my flesh. My God! I was just recovering and that was when he thought of getting back to make everything go bad again?

I wasn't in for the conversations as i was always being moved to talk to him, regardless of what he has done. I felt we could be friends with no strings attached, but to be sincere it wasn't easy.

So i had to block him off.

Before i blocked him, He wasn't ready to explain how it all happened, how he met someone new and fell, how he got carried away and left ...all the stories... i didn't get to hear any from him.

If he's reading this, i have forgiven him, but he should be careful with how he handles relationships, Relationships are so delicate. Never ignore whatsoever feelings a partner might feel, be it bad, mixed, or great feelings.

Be sensitive to the needs of your partner. I wasn't the perfect one, but then, i wish i knew what i did, for him to have stopped communicating with me.

Thank you for reading through.
Apologies for the break in transmission,....